Simeon's Prophecy:
Our Lady came to the Temple to pray and to do her duty as to being "purified" as an act of humility on her part since she was "full of grace" (Gabriel Angel confirmed that she was always full of grace during the Annunciation). So, Mary did not need to be purified after the birth of her son. She performed all rituals of the Jewish rite as an act of humility! 
So, Mary goes to the Temple and Simeon asks to hold baby Jesus - it is like he recognizes the baby as God's son! Simeon's prophecy is this: "And Simeon blessed them, and said to Mary his mother: Behold this child is set for the fall, and for the resurrection of many in Israel, and for a sign which shall be contradicted;" 
Mary now writes or tells us.. from Your Sorrow is my Sorrow book:
"For awhile Simeon's words just hung their in the temple. I was stunned not believing what I heard. Then the devastating news came home to me. My son was going to be harmed. "Oh no," I thought, "this cannot be." All joy drained out as fear and trepidition rose...What did this mean? 
Then Anna at the temple came by and she held Jesus in her arms. "As I began to ease, Anna also spoke highly of Jesus and how she would help others. She too, promised Jesus would make a great difference in people's lives." 
OK, back to me the editor writing...so Mary is also surprised about Jesus' possibly suffering in the future. Her first sorrow of her first sword in her heart starts. She will have six more throughout the life of Jesus and esp. at his death. 
We will be covering most of these sorrows this Lent. We hope you will walk with us! 
Another short story the book mentions (Your Sorrow is my sorrow) is the diagnosis of a baby being Down Syndrome. 
The parents were not expecting this - so it is like the surprise or sorrow of Mary - however, after the baby is born the parents realize how much a blessing of a Down syndrome child can give to them. That they are indeed blessed to share the love these children can only seem to give to the family. 
Book writing:  I am gathering stories of bereavement, surprise stories (like above) or anything like this such as miscarriage, stillbirth or even a loved one gone - to be shared in a bereavement book honoring Our Lady of Sorrows. If you have something you wish to share with us please email [email protected] and send us your story to share - this week we are looking for any stories that would go with the theme of Simeon's prophecy. 
Another type of prophecy would be a diagnosis that means the fetus/baby inside the mother would not survive. (Like a stillbirth or later miscarriage). 
We also have an optional Facebook group you may join if you need extra help in your journey this Lent at here: ​

I will try to post here for my first post - however, I want you to join our newsletter for mother's so I can share with you in your inbox. 
Before, I get into the retreat, what would you think if I sent you a text message once in awhile? I hear there is away to send SMS messages to a group for not much on my end - and would you opt-in for this idea? I want to reach people more - mothers, etc. The message would probably be short and prompt you to come to the blog or a page for the longer message - it could be to our blog or a sale - anyway, if you like this idea - let me know! I am just wanting to find out interest in this idea...

OK, so Lent is starting and I am terrible at planning for Lent-however, this year I want to walk it with Our Lady of Sorrows -so we will be going through her meditations and posting a passage about her Sorrows for each week - and if there's an extra week - we will wrap things up.

I also am trying to write a book about Bereavement and Our Lady of Sorrows. I wanted it to be kind of specific to miscarriages, etc. However, if you have a story to share under bereavement and it is not quite miscarriage category - I may still add in your story. So, send it to us via [email protected] and let us know to have permission to print it. We are not trying to make money off this book - but I may have to charge a small fee - I'll see about the publisher that I am working with right now. 

So, we have two options for our retreat - you can sign up for our mother's newsletter and get in on it there or you can go to Facebook group and join it there and I"ll post something once a week. 

I may also post here at the blog too. However, more info will be in the newsletter or group. 

I like the group idea because we can talk about what we struggle with if so desired during Lent. 

Go here to join the Facebook group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/MiniMomRetreat/
OK, well, I hope you join our mini-retreat - most posts will be on Wednesdays! 

 A virtual doula helps a mother long distance and serves her via email, chat, phone, Raidcalll, Skype or other forms of communication - whatever works best for client and doula  together.
A virtual doula will offer prenatal  sessions - sometimes this can be done by emailing information or other times it can be powerpoint slides of instructions that help the mom know what to expect for her baby's birth.
During labor, the mom will probably call first to let doula know she's in labor, and either continue calling on/off or texting or other forms of "phone communication" that work for mom and doula - if you are real fancy "Face Time" or other apps. The dad may also text doula some during labor as mom maybe too busy with the contractions and such. The doula is there as a 'virtual assistant' so to speak. Also, the doula makes sure dad gets attention - she may actually be communicating more with him during labor - so this is a great way to be part of both parents as a virtual doula! 
So, where do you find a virtual doula? 
Glad you asked!
I offer these services as a way to reach out to Catholic or Christian mothers.  These services maybe more affordable for mothers to try out instead of having a hands on doula - esp. if you are in an area where those doulas charge $1,000 or more a birth! Perhaps, you don't want that much hands on help - you have your spouse - so this is win-win . Your doula can listen to your fears, be your prayer partner, and help with seeking the best birth friend you have!
I offer various birth packages that include a special surprise  box after birth.
I also can offer postpartum support - I know this may sound strange, but many moms need someone to talk to after birth - well I offer  this kind of support as well. 
Anyway, if you would like to know more information: http://avemariadoula.weebly.com to  book me.
I offer free consult to see if virtual doula is the right way to go for your upcoming birth. 
I also only take 2 clients a month - so get your request in early! God Bless!
Julie Larsen 

Today's feast - at least in the Traditional Latin Mass is the Feast of the Holy Family.
I think this is a great time to consider what the Holy Family went through. 
Mary and Joseph couldn't find "room in the inn" so they had their first born son- Jesus and laid him "in a manager" in "swaddling clothes".
I love this one - we like to train our doulas to know about swaddling the baby - so it is right here in the bible too! 
So, the shepherds come and worship.
I believe the Holy Family must have also did the circumcision in the manager most likely.  This is when Jesus was named as well.  They must have  gone to the temple to "purify Mary" though she was 100 percent holy - this was tradition and Mary submitted to this ritual. Then I believe the 3 wise men came sometime after this - that's just how I would see the order of things. It mentions that the three kings came to a "house" find the verse. So, the Holy Family did have a place in Bethlehem  somewhere - now it could be that the cave/stable was near a house - so I don't know for sure if they were in a real house or still in the stable area when the wise men came - but the did see  a star. However, remember in the Bible, the Wise Men even stopped in Jerusalem - it seemed the star had disappeared for a short time - they found out that the prophecies suggested the baby would be born in Bethlehem. They did seem to find the star again and find Jesus! 
After the wisemen left their gifts, an angel told them to go home a different way. Then, another angel appeared to Joseph to go fly to Egypt as  Herod was after killing all the babies ! So, Joseph obeyed and took Mary , Jesus and  went immediately in the middle of the night to Egypt! Imagine the Holy Family being "homeless" in a way for a few years in Egypt. I am sure they did find a place to live, etc. Joseph was  a resourceful man! Then finally, they hear from an angel that it is safe to return - but to go to Nazareth a safer region to live in. So, this is why Jesus is called a Nazarene.
So, what does all of above have to do with being a doula. First of all, we should meditate on life of Jesus - it is good for our doula souls! Secondly, we are reminded by this narrative, that no mother is perfect - she may have moved around 100 times or not be in the best place at this moment in her life - but she's having a baby and needs your best support. Don't judge a mother because of her circumstances. Look at the Holy Family they were even were homeless! 
Third, the Holy Family shows that no matter what God is with us. If we are feeling discourage in our doula business - then pray and God will provide our needs and desires. So, think about above and pray to God for your doula business needs. Pray to the Holy Family! 

Being a doula for a year has been one incredible journey. I have loved every moment of it. But somethings I wish I knew when I started my doula business are the following tips. These tips we hope you can become a better doula from or even learn more for your FUTURE business as a doula.

1. Don't bother with what other doulas think of you. Not every doula is going to like you. It isn't a field where most people like each other. I really was hoping that we all could work together but the competition can be hot. Don't let other's tear you down and what they do with their business you don't have to do with yours.

2.  Set a Goal for your Business each month. Something I wish I did in the beginning of my business is creating goals in the beginning I just did my training when I could and that worked but as I got other jobs at the same time it was really hard on my system to keep it all organized.

3. Take time to improve yourself with more training and knowledge. Even if you don't offer lots of different packages in everything like babywearing, birth, postpartum, fertility, nutrition... etc. You can always learn more. Learn it so you can teach your clients what they may want to know. Take a different training each year to improve yourself.

4. Take a Training that you agree with morally. So many trainings have different mission statements. You may not agree with abortion, you may not want to take a training that supports that. You may also want to see what you believe in on other things as well as something you can learn before your training.

5. Don't forget that being a doula is after all a business and it is work. You need to remember to take care of yourself and don't obsess over this so much that you are unable to take care of your health, and family time. 

Being a doula is amazing and I hope to continue being a doula for as long as I can before other things come up. But I wish I knew some of these things before I took my training, before having issues with other doulas because the competition was hot. Think about it and really do your research.

These are just the opinions of one doula. Lisa van der Wilt. 

 1. 100% Pro-life training - we will never preach anything that is against life from conception to birth - this is a child in God's eyes. No "abortion doula" baloney. All life is precious! If we get to a fertility doula course, no contraception (birth control) as this is also anti-life. 
2. We are not politically correct! (We refer usually to father as that father/partner/husband) and mother as mother! 
3. We offer spiritual based training from Gifts of Holy Ghost to Joys or Sorrows of Mary included in our training! 
4. We want our students to be happy--interaction with student/teachers are important to us. 
5. We devote a lot of time to making the curriculum affordable and updating it often--keeping it evidenced based as much as possible. 
6. Rebozo training is included in the cost -- no need to take an extra rebozo course (birth doula only for this). 
7. We offer all things in a Christian/Catholic format -- no "goddess worship". 
8. Get a Mexican rebozo shawl with your birth doula course! ​

We have decided to add in our Herbal Course for pregnancy and postpartum this month. We don't offer this course that often -- so enroll today and be amazed at how much you can learn in as little as 7 weeks. First week is get into class and get your supplies. Second week we start with formal training -- the modules. We have 6 modules of fun filled activities. Need extra mentorship? Just ask us! Videos and websites are linked in each module. Only one major assignment is needed to be awarded the certificate of completion and 6 Continuing Education units from Catholic Doula Program! Mothers and doulas are welcome to take the course. Yes, guys are welcome. :)

Link to course enrollment page is here: www.catholicdoula.com/herbal-course.html

We are not making the class for June this year for fast-track. We have at least a small group that hope to start in August, so we are going to be advertising a special Teen Focus Fast-Track doula course for August and will be a 14 week course with a new book called "The Birth Conspiracy". It has some good bones to this book, so that's why we chose it. You learn about being a "Whole Doula" for instance, etc. We hope your teen will enjoy this course. Adults are also welcome to take the class.

We have decided to go ahead and extend enrollment for birth doula fast-track through June 22nd. We hope we will have some new enrollees for the summer. This is the last chance to really make this as summer course for you to study and try to get most of it done before fall. We will most likely have a course for late summer/early Fall in August or Septmeber. Stay tuned for more details on that.

We are planning to have a little Digital Catholic Doula Conference -- hoping to do it in August before school starts. We are actually looking for people who would like to contribute some items or "digital items" for a conference drawing or two. We are also looking for "speakers" for our conference. So, if you would like to talk about doula work and Catholicism; please email us at [email protected]. We thought that we are all so far apart the best way to have our first conference would be an online conference. We think we will allow free access for a certain amount of days and then if you want the conference talks "to keep forever: we will have a digital download fee for this. There will also be an herbal course as part of the conference and the herbal course will cost something. We may also offer aromatherapy course as well. The fee for the courses will help us will help us with setting this up and be able to give you some CEU credits as graduate students or anyone who just wants to take the classes. The classes for the conference are open to anyone: parents, mothers, doulas, childbirth educators, midwives, etc. I don't know how to get DONA approved CEU -- if someone on here does, please let me know and maybe we can arrange that for a course in the near future!! OK, God Bless. Look for conference information coming soon and special links!